A teacher once said to me, “Matt, you can do anything you set your mind to!” This was not a favorite teacher of mine or someone that I particularly remember, but those words always stuck. There were different times during high school or college when I would be reminded of that simple sentence and it would help keep me focused and moving forward. Simply put, the words we use with students and the encouragement that we give matter and will make a difference for many years to follow!

Encouragement and praise are some of the most important things that we can give our students! Delivered at the right time and in the right situation, they can positively impact students for a lifetime.

During winter vacation I was able to visit with a previous student of mine and his family. He is about to graduate from high school and I could not be more proud of his growth and maturity since I first met him in my class five years ago. What I did not realize is the impact that a simple email of encouragement could have on this student. I do not remember what I wrote or even the context; however, I heard from his mom that he keeps a screenshot of it on his phone and refers back to it during difficult times.

It’s difficult to truly comprehend our impact on students and the lasting effects of a kind word of encouragement or praise. Although as teachers, we feel that much of what we say goes in one ear and out the other, I truly do believe that our students are listening much closer than we think.

My challenge to you:

This week, give one student a thoughtful, well-directed word of praise or encouragement. After all, it may just be the thing they need to keep on track and something that they will remember for the rest of their lives!

*photo courtesy of Pixabay